Generous wife tip

Lori is so right. Sharing a secret does build intimacy. There are certain words and signs that only my hubby and I know what they mean. When we hear those words used in ordinary settings we both look at each other and smile.

Create a couple of "private signals" that you and your husband can use during the holiday season. The "private" part builds intimacy between the two of you and the "signal" part comes in handy during the social situations and busyness of the holidays. Lightly tapping the back of his hand might mean, "I'm tired, can we wrap this up and head for home?" Tugging your ear might mean, "I need a hug" or "please rescue me from this conversation." Don't forget to create a few romantic/sexual signals as well. ("Meet me in the bedroom," "you look absolutely wonderful tonight," etc.)

There was ... language in their very gesture. William Shakespeare, The Winter's Tale

Think generous! Lori <><

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